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Do you ever wonder, “Why does my girlfriend hate me?” It can be confusing to doubt your partner’s feelings for you, especially when you might be head over heels in love with them.
When you’re in love with a person, the signs are hard to miss. You start to experience butterflies at the mention of their name, the thought of spending time together is enough to make your day, and even your brain goes through different chemical changes in response.
But just as the feelings of love can be clear to see, unrequited love can be an obvious and painful thing to experience. While you’re in a relationship with a person you love, coming to the realization that they e feelings can be incredibly hard to deal with.
Relationships can be complicated. In this guide, we’ll be looking at changes that can signal your girlfriend’s changing feelings towards you. To help you possibly mend your relationship, we’ll also break down steps you can take to improve your connection with your partner.
At a Glance
It can be very confusing if you’ve noticed a change in how your girlfriend speaks, relates, or otherwise acts around you. In particular, it’s easy to get frustrated when unsure why she changed her behavior. Depression, stress, growing apart, one-sidedness, and other unresolved issues are just a few reasons why you might feel like your girlfriend hates you. You can address the issue by considering your own behavior, having an open conversation, and attending couples therapy together. If the issue isn’t one you can solve, it might be time to consider ending the relationship and moving on.
Signs That Your Girlfriend Dislikes You
It’s hard to watch when your significant other switches from the person you once shared hopes, dinners, and bad jokes with-to a person that may have turned off all romantic feelings towards you.
Her Body Language Seems Off
If you’re questioning your girlfriend’s feelings towards you, your doubts may not be linked to anything she does or says. Instead, the way her body reacts around you could be a dead giveaway of her disinterest in you and the relationship.
Her true feelings may be revealed where she pulls away during attempts to enjoy the bonding benefits of a hug or cuddle at night.
These feelings can also manifest in smaller instances where she rolls her eyes during conversations, pulls away when you attempt to hold hands in public, or otherwise maintains a look of contempt around you.
In the early stages of a relationship, it’s fairly normal to aspire to spend every waking moment and toilet break with your partner. While this eventually lessens over time, there is a level of distance between you and your partner that can set warning bells ringing.
If your girlfriend is constantly making up excuses for why she can’t meet up, or if her Instagram stories are filled with fun times you weren’t invited to (or even aware of), this could mean that she’s making an active decision to spend time apart from you.
Your Communication Feels Strained
This can play out in different ways. On one hand, you may speak frequently with your girlfriend throughout the day, engaging in surface conversations about the weather, what was had for lunch, and plans for after work.
On the other hand, communication ple, each day you might feel uncertain about whether you will hear from your girlfriend or if she will return your call.
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